Brenda Nell Miller was born in Bradford, AL on December 28, 1942 and left this world on July 18, 2017 in Bakersfield, CA to join her parents Bonnie & Herbert Gray, sister Martha (Marion) Justice and brother Herbert (Betty) Gray Jr. Brenda lived a life of lovingly serving her family and is survived by her loving husband of 32 years, David Miller; children Cheryl Alvarez, Charles "Joe" and Robert "Danny" Mann; grandchildren Jennifer (Joseph) Palakiko, Robby Mann, David Allen and Brenda "Gracie" Alvarez, Joey Mann, Nichole (Surge) Huapaya and Daniel "DJ" Ryel; great grandchildren Jordan Davis, Emily, Ethan, Olivia and Joseph Palakiko, Keirrah and Joseph Mann, Garrit and Daniel Huapaya, and Kristy Ryel; step-children David (Maria) and Christina Miller, Jennifer (Mark) Lentini, Anna (Andrew) Goodman and Janina Miller; step-grandchildren Brianna Miller, Bronson and Brandi Lentini, and Aubrey Goodman; siblings Billie ( the late Beau) Caffee, Larry (Susan) Gray, Gene (the late Patricia) Gray; and many loving nieces, nephews and cousins. Memorial services will be held on Friday at 11am, August 4, 2017 at the Saint Philip the Apostle Church in Bakersfield, CA.